I’ve been thinking for the past few days about the gamble of self disclosure. The negative sides of letting it all hang out are pretty obvious. Jerry Springer comes to mind, or the reality tv shows like “The Bachelor”. Narcissists who make everything about them. …
Read MorePsychoanalysis this was not
After a year of threatening, after a month of really trying…today I began therapy. What a let down. First of all, no couch. NO COUCH! In the movies, there’s ALWAYS a couch. And after last night’s sleep, I could have used one. He didn’t once …
Read MoreUniting mind and heart
(This post is a gamble for me. My alternative titles for it are, “False Humility” and “Internal Exclusion and Embrace: The Schizophrenic Within.”) One of the funniest slams on me in the last few years came from a friend I’ve known since high school. We …
Read MoreDr. Martin Luther King Jr.
Early morning…April 4…shot rang out in a Memphis sky Free at last…they took your life…they could not take your Pride. Pride (in the name of love), U2 14 days later, I was born. I’ve spent time in the last few years reading about the decade …
Read MoreDiagnosis, please
What does it say about me that I couldn’t get a Christmas letter out before Christmas this year, but I was able to cut, export, upload, and blog about a three year old unfinished Christmas video? Psychoanalysis requested and welcomed via the comments.
Read MoreStream of consciousness from driving in my car
Ok, so imagine this: our entire pastoral team, after Tuesday’s team meeting, goes to the Golden Leaf for Thai food. In a freak accident, we are all killed because they garnished with arsenic instead of curry. What would happen at NFC? Would all the people …
Read MoreConfessions and Questions
My confession? I like to preach. In fact, there are times like the last two Sundays where I feel like it’s part of what I was born to do. I love speaking the truth that God is present. I love, absolutely love, when I can …
Read MoreI’m not hip, and I’m getting old
I’m sitting in a local coffee shop reading (three things at once: The Present Future, 7 Practices of Effective Ministry, and A PRE-RELEASE COPY of Doug Pagitt’s and KP’s new book, Body Prayer…I’m cool like Bob). Anyway, I’m sitting here, and there are three college …
Read MoreWhy I’m a Quaker
I’m a Quaker because Quakers have opened up experiences with God in me that have changed my life. I’m a Friend because Friends, at our best, combine a passionate, alive, and vital experience of God with a fearless engagement of destructive social structures in the …
Read MoreWine and turtles and house churches and…
I want to write a little more about my brief conversation with Andrew on Saturday night. I was telling him that it seems like I’m called to do something that most American emerging church folks have given up on; it seems like I’m called to …
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